Category Archives: R’ship

Would this genderqueer marry?

Relationship challenge no. 220 of being genderqueer/non-binary (and in a poly relationship). Somewhere in the last few weeks the discussion about long-term, committed and monogamous relationships have come up in conversation with friends. Unbeknownst to me some people think that … Continue reading

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30 Day Genderqueer Challenge Day 21

Your first queer crush or relationship? I cannot remember exactly who my first queer crush was, but the following names come to mind: – a queer person I met online who I later met and now know personally – Hilary … Continue reading

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30 Day Genderqueer Challenge Day 18

What is your sexual and romantic orientations? Are they affected by your gender? Pre-genderqueer and T I identified as a lesbian/dyke and found myself sexually and romantically oriented to cis-women mostly, and the few trans* guys I happened to glimpse upon. Pre-testosterone … Continue reading

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30 Day Genderqueer Challenge Day 17

How has your relationship with yourself been affected since you realized you were Genderqueer? I was actually just thinking about this before I started work today. A few months ago I verbally removed myself from the lesbian community, saying I … Continue reading

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30 Day Genderqueer Challenge Day 11

How has your family taken it or how might they take it? I’ve only told one member of my family and that’s my gran, and that’s only because we live together. I’ve not told my parents or siblings and I … Continue reading

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4 Weeks on T

Four weeks have passed with one week since my last T shot, which hurt a little. I didn’t feel as crap this time around and haven’t sprained any muscles playing sport, which is good. I don’t feel any different but … Continue reading

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Friendships and Sex

A couple of weeks ago I put a entry into an FTM group on Livejournal about feeling isolated and not knowing anyone who identifies as genderqueer to talk to. I received quite a few replies and from them I found … Continue reading

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