Category Archives: Genderqueer

No tears genderqueer

I’ve just finished writing to someone on Livejournal who I’ve been corresponding with for a couple of months. I am so thankful for the few people who I am able to talk openly about taking T and being genderqueer, because … Continue reading

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Genderqueer is my lived experience

Interrupt me if you’ve already heard me saying this… I saw my psychiatrist a few weeks to a month ago. It was a catch-up from seix-months ago when I last saw him and not much was said really. I feel … Continue reading

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30 Day Genderqueer Challenge Day 16

How does your gender factor in to your future plans? I think gender will always factor in my future plans; wether it be a year, five or more. Reflecting back on my 30-something years I can see gender clearly: – … Continue reading

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30 Day Genderqueer Challenge Day 15

How do you, or would you, deal with being misgendered? I get misgendered on a daily basis. Some of it is because I don’t try to present as ‘male’ so people use female pronouns and see me as ‘female’. People who … Continue reading

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Questioning T

I missed the first FTM Shed gathering yesterday because I am still trying to get over my cold and was exhausted after attempting to walk around South Yarra, Prahan and Windsor. There was also a part of me that wasn’t … Continue reading

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30 Day Genderqueer Challenge Day 14

Name some media you connect with queerly. I’ve just realised that I do not connect with a lot of queer media, either printed or online, then again maybe I do… My links on the right hand side of my page … Continue reading

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30 Day Genderqueer Challenge Day 13

How do you deal with gendered things? Clothes shopping, bathrooms, forms, etc. Once upon a time I was ignorant, it was bliss, or was it? Now I deal with gendered things on a day-to-day basis – some days are good … Continue reading

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30 Day Genderqueer Challenge Day 12

Are you part of the Gender and Sexuality Minority community? I dunno am I? Sorry I found this to be slightly a silly question for a genderqueer challenge, but maybe it isn’t… I am unsure if I belong to a … Continue reading

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30 Day Genderqueer Challenge Day 11

How has your family taken it or how might they take it? I’ve only told one member of my family and that’s my gran, and that’s only because we live together. I’ve not told my parents or siblings and I … Continue reading

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Coming-out Interstate

I’m just back from five days interstate where I visited a good friend and his partner. While I had apprehensions about going up I’ve returned home calm, happy and relieved. I finally had the opportunity to tell him face-to-face that … Continue reading

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